Tip #1 Gentlemen, honesty is the best policy. You don’t want to end up with a messy emotional dispute or lead someone on. Explain your intentions ahead of time. Let the girl you’re interested in sleeping with know that you aren’t looking for a girlfriend or a relationship. There is a good chance she’ll feel the same or she simply won’t care. Then again, she may decide she’s no longer interested. While you may have just c*ckblocked yourself, you will be avoiding a lot of unnecessary drama. Trust me when I tell you, there are plenty of girls in the nightlife scene who are DTF and not looking for anything serious. You don’t want to end up creating some crazy stalker. Find someone on the same page as you and you’ll have way more fun.