Living in New York is all about accepting the extremes. Chances are you're eating too much Halal food, earning too little money, and definitely being way lamer than your Instagram followers think you are. The Real Housewives may have convinced you that the empire state of mind is all about pretending to like matcha and the most high profile scenes to be seen; however, what you really should be concerned with is where not to be seen. Check out this guide for the spots to avoid if you want to be anything other than that #extra girl that thinks going to 1 Oak is ~totally~ the move.

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