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Picking a Clubhouse

You and your righteous babes could basically have fun anywhere, but that doesn't mean you have to. Try rooftop bars where you can look down on the patriarchy by physically rising above it, dive bars where you can reclaim a traditionally male space, beaches where you can show that your body is not an innately sexual object, and underground clubs - the original site of grass roots change (jokes, but not really). Just remember not to diminish yourself in the face of new surroundings. Don't hide behind a table and wait for someone to talk to. Speak with who you like, drink what you like, dance where you like, kiss who you like (always ask for consent first).

[Photo via @killerandasweetthang]

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