Name-dropping is fine, but social climbing is icky
Everybody social climbs a little bit, or they have at one point in their lives. Middle school and high school were ruthless, so it was a survival tactic that in retrospect was really dumb. Everyone gets butterflies in their stomach from hanging out with glitzy and glam people, and that's totally normal. Hanging out with a famous person is a cool story to tell to your friends, but when name-dropping supersedes asking your friend if she's feeling better after a bad night or how her new relationship is going, you've taken a bad turn. Making it your mission to be featured on "Rich Kids of Instagram" or to get a Cartier love bracelet from someone whose name is featured on the Hollywood Walk of Fame or is a member of a political dynasty is tacky and only alienating people. If it is attracting people, I guarantee you it's people who don't have your best interest at heart. Curating a social circle that's contingent on glam factor is gauche and everyone can see right through you, including those of the créme de la créme that you're pandering to.