Dive bars and all-night ragers are fun when you're in college (and OK, maybe for a little while after college too) but every New York woman reaches a certain point in her life when neon lights and red cups must give way to steak dinners at swanky restaurants. If you're ready to get serious and trade in those drunken hookups for a more serious relationship, we've got just the spots for you. Classic, old-world, filled with the preppy Upper East Siders of your dreams. Visit these bar-restaurants for a surefire way to live out that Gossip Girl fantasy you had in high school. Who knows? You might just meet the Chuck Bass of your life. Swoon.