The Text Message
NYC party girls are busy. The 3-7 day rule to hit a girl up does not exist in NYC. If you want to hang out with a girl, make it clear, and text her the next day.
Guys, a good opening line:
A picture text of something that reminded you of her with "Hi, it's [your name here]"
Ladies, if you don't want to give him your number:
"How about I take your number and let you know what my schedule is once I sort things out."
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