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The trick with picking up a New Yorker in the nightlife scene is that most nightlifers aren't really looking for serious commitment. Knowing this rule of thumb may make the courting process easier, and will also help you get rid of any wave of relationship desperation and insecurity. Nightlifers are a strange breed of confidence, excitement, and low attention spans all balled into one chic hybrid. (Wonder why the best after hours spots close so quickly in Manhattan? Because New Yorkers are notorious for falling victims to boredom.)
If you are seeking out a relationship, bars, clubs, and after hour spots may not be the wisest places to find commitment. But there is always hope, because if it is meant to be, it will feel mutually right. The best part about a New Yorker? They will make it clear when they are no longer interested simply by not responding to your calls. For the hopeless romantics, it may be wise to refer to Karma and preach the famous motto, "everything happens for a reason."
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