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9. You play the victim

Being a victim is not only unattractive ... it never works. It's a device geared to engendering guilt and no one enjoys feeling guilty. It also makes you seem weak and childish. If you want him to consider your needs seriously, you must have confidence in yourself. When you play the victim he'll know it, even if only subconsciously, and he'll rebel against giving you and what you want.
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