"For my cat loving assistant..."Agnes Felt wool cat cave; $109, EtsyTom Dixon bowl; prices vary, Tom DixonJ. Crew Pocket Squares, $24-55, J.CrewSara Ruffin Costello is a New Orleans based design, travel, fashion and food writer. The once editor of Domino Magazine, she now contributes to New York Times' T Magazine, Travel and Leisure, Vogue and other rags. Follow her here: sararuffincostello.com and @sararuffincostello