Tip: Mix Up the Third Date #ops heavy
Me: alright, third date: pull out all the stops?
Lockhart: All the stops is likely not the move.
Ben: Yeah. So the third date is a little tough. It’s maybe the hardest one. I think you want to try to mix it up with format on the third date. I don’t want to say movie, necessarily. But something that has a culture component.
Me: let’s say a play.
Ben: also: DAYTIME.
Me: let’s say A MATINEE!
Ben: Sure. That a little all-the-stops-y But, sure.
Me: okay, but something not dinner-y.
Ben: daytime.
Me: but…food eventually?
Ben: Yeah, but it’s not the focus.
Lockhart: Walking tour of Red Hook.
Me: as long as you don’t use the words “walking tour”
Ben: It shouldn’t feel #ops heavy. It’s sort of like, I’ve been really wanting to TASTE A CRONUT, do you want to go down to Soho and wait on line and get CRONUTS. #cronutops
Lockhart: HowAboutWe… ?
Me: Yeah, it’s like a How About We date
Ben: It could turn into a super date, daytime into evening into dinner. Or you guys have a great afternoon.
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