Chef Stephanie Nass, a.k.a. Chefanie, is the ultimate entertaining doyenne - a girl about town who's forever on the guest list, and forever making a guest list. Of course, nothing passes the eye of this professional hostess, no detail too small to be left unturned.

The regular events she cooks up for Victory Club, the arts and dining club she founded in 2014, can be spotted from miles away, leaving trails of her signature touches, from painted menus, hand-embroidered napkins, even cakes dressed with her custom Chefanie Sheets

Take note of her five simple steps to personalizing any party, and prepare to be the belle of your own ball!