4. The Cubby Hole
Most gay bars are pretty discrete. They follow a sort of "Don't ask don't tell" vibe. This is my personal favorite when you want to show your date how desirable you are. Even if someone recognizes you there you can play the closeted card and they will keep the encounter a most treasured secret. Cubby Hole is also a fun place full of nooks and crannies for some discrete smooching under a some twinkly christmas lights.
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