5. Never EVER Be Close Minded
I get it, it's awkward the first couple of times. We are all shy without our phones and clothes creating barriers. Sex is when we are at our most vulnerable. This doesn't mean we should judge others and stay close minded. Maybe it's too soon for toys and handcuffs, but never say never. Keeping an open mind about sex makes for new adventures and exploration. There is a reason these things exist. So one day, it doesn't have to be today, give it a try. Go see what all the kinky hype is about!