We Seek Too Much Control
I am the definition of this. If my boyfriend does something without telling me, I cannot help but fully lose my shit. Sometimes it seems like having control is the only way to survive. Unfortunately that does not translate well into the sack. Don't get me wrong, I love some dominatrix dirty cop role play. But when it's the kind of control that has you stuck in your head, things won't be looking too good. Mellow out with your partner, and maybe take a Xanax.
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