5. You Haven't Gotten To The Heart Of The Matter - YOU!
Life can be tough sometimes. Whether you’re in between jobs, financially unstable, or even going through a difficult breakup, whatever the hardship may be, it casts an emotional shadow on your self-esteem. If you don't know when you'll be back on track, it can be easy to seek a quick emotional fix via a relationship. What you don't consider is that this is a temporary fix; one that won’t change your circumstances, only mask them. Instead of focusing on a man to resolve your problems, try focusing on the real issue—YOU. Get yourself figured out and you'll finally know exactly what you want.