What are the biggest dating questions you get from men and women respectively? Do men even get nervous before dates?!
It's either "Am I normal?", "How do I form a connection?” or something to do with sex like, "When is too early to have it?" But we are living in the age where sex is a way we date, so there is really never a 'too soon.' That being said, you shouldn't waste your time with people who judge you on when you decide is the right time to get into bed. Sex (when consensual) should be celebrated, not shamed. When it comes to forming a connection, my best advice is to be a bit vulnerable with someone. Bring your walls down enough in order for them to see who you really are. Instead of just talking about who you are, talk about how you feel. Share a moment with someone, an insecurity, or a desire. You can still laugh and be your fabulous self, just let them in enough to help form a deeper connection, not a superficial one.
I think everyone gets nervous before dates at some level. Regardless of your gender, sitting next to or opposite someone who you maybe don't know all that well and trying to keep a conversation going can be daunting to even the most confident people.