2. We Don't Believe in Labels
We all know those terms just mean the other person doesn't feel like committing. No labels, it's complicated, "just friends" - all terms used to describe that person you are sleeping with for far too long but haven't gotten around to talking about feelings with. Handcuffs, a gag, some rope or anything that is a bit pain inducing is a good way to go. Let them feel a bit of burn with you dominating. It's your turn to call the shots!
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