So you want to visit a sex club. Maybe you've exhausted every other "unique date idea" in your city, or are tired of the mediocre dating app scene. In any case, we can't think of anything more romantic than an evening indulging your (and your partner's) wildest fantasies.

In honor of Valentine's Day, we asked Daniel Saynt, the former fashion exec turned founder of The New Society For Wellness (NSFW), New York's coolest, members-only adult club, for some tips for newbies just starting to navigate the waters - virgins, if you will.

Trust, if you're going to the right club or party, it's not nearly as intimidating you'd think. NSFW, for one, promotes positive, feminist messages about sex and cannabis. Through fun experiences and workshops, NSFW wants to help people remove shame in an environment that is safe and judgement-free. The goal? Help as many people as possible reach sexual enlightenment. That's hot.

Curious? Click through for some expert advice on making the most of your first time.

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