Practice Enthusiastic Consent
If it's not a HELL YES!!, it's a hell no. Encourage your partner to listen for verbal cues when you're in the midst of play. Ask before you engage with new partners. The sex positive community is focused on spreading this messaging, to make all spaces safer for all. Ask before you touch and you'll stay clear of any gray zones. Use your words to show your interest in others and get creative on your dirty talk to keep the experience sensual.
[Photo by Allen Henson, model Skye Blue]