You're confident in yourself
It's often been said that confidence will take you a long way in life, and according to Ricciardi, that is also inclusive of your sex life.
"Having confidence could include you leaving the lights on, going completely nude (or wearing something super sexy)," she said. "You take control of the situation ... You're vocal; you're enthusiastic! You feel them desiring you!"
Confidence in the bedroom can turn your partner on even more because they know you aren't afraid to display your sexuality when with them.
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