You know what needs to be done to reach your peak

Darné told us that someone who is good in bed does not fully rely on their partner to get them "off."

"A woman who has explored her own body and knows how to bring herself to climax can pretty much guide any man that is not "naturally instinctive" in the ways of pleasing her," he said. "A sexually pro-active woman doesn't simply lay back and leave things up to chance."

No one wants an overly-passive partner, so it's totally OK to assist in getting to your peak if you know what that requires. Great sex is not for the timid and you shouldn't be shy about getting yours.

[Photo via @flightloop]

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