You aim to please

Though many people's goal during sex is to get pleasure, Darné told us that someone who's good in bed has more interest in doing the pleasing.

"A great lover is always more than willing to give as good as she or he gets. They're always looking to 'one-up' their mate's attempt to please them," he said. "In fact, a good lover is never completely satisfied if he or she knows his mate did not fully enjoy their session."

Having a partner that's more concerned with pleasing you is a turn on for most, so imagine what the results could be if both partners have this mentality.

[Photo via @josephkel]

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