You are attentive and vocal with your partner

Darné also told us that being attentive and vocal during sex is another way to know that you're putting it down correctly.

"Everyone loves to hear the sounds of their partner experiencing pleasure. A good lover pays attention to what causes their partner to moan, breathe heavy, and observes how their body reacts to things they are doing for them, to them, and with them," he said. "A great lover is not "locked into a few go-to moves". Given time you can learn what every sigh or body movement means guiding you towards your next move of deciding whether to tease or to please. Communicating desires and fantasies outside of the bedroom is just as important as giving queues inside the bedroom."

Keeping an open line of communication and being honest with your partner about what pleases you in the bedroom will help keep things from becoming boring and mundane.

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