4. Check Your Reflection
If you can't figure out why you keep attracting guys who are manic, obsessive, excessive partiers, workaholics or lacking drive and direction, look in the mirror. The people you attract are often a perfect reflection of behaviors or mindsets you hold within yourself. Remember question #1: Would you date yourself? If you consistently attract men with attributes you truly dislike, fix yourself first. Then you'll attract a great guy — one just as great as you.