My name is Ashley Kaylor, I’m a professional matchmaker. Being a single woman in New York is hard. Dating is difficult; don’t let anyone tell you differently! There are thousands upon thousands of women looking for love in the city, and they’re all competition. A cute guy at a bar is prey, and other women are just waiting for the right time to strike. Don’t get lost in a crowd that reeks of desperation; get him to notice to you for you! Follow these 5 tips for standing out in a crowd.