We're not exactly sure when the bachelorette party, an albeit timeless rite of passage, transformed from a single night of cocktails and Chippendales to a lavish days-long jaunt to an exotic destination (or Las Vegas), but in any case, it's certainly become a built-in expectation for every bride-to-be. Of course, not every bride-to-be is hoping for bawdy decorations or cheesy party games. Whether you're planning a bash for the non-basic bride who's too chic for a sash, or, let's be real, are the non-basic bride who will be planning most of it yourself, who better to turn to for fun, fabulous ideas than some fellow cool girls? Let's just say major Instagrammable moments await...

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