Roses are red, violets are blue, Valentine’s Day is this week and we don’t know what to get you! Ok, we all know Valentine’s Day isn’t for guys - it’s for us girls (they don’t want flowers, candy or a pink card)! So, in the spirit of being selfish and thoughtful at the same time, turn his gift into an experience that you both can enjoy. Since there’s nothing’s better than spending quality time together and doing something you’ll both love, we’ve curated a list of ideas to help you share memories instead of gifts - because your presence is a present, right?

[Photos via @aguynamedpatrick, @jonathanadler]