Dear @HauteNights
I really love to wear sexy clothes when I go out. When I say sexy I'm talking about shorts, super short dresses anything that shows off my boobs. I know that guys react to it, but would they ever consider something serious with me or am I just a sex object to them?
-Party Girl
I’m assuming deep down you probably already know the answer to this question. Men will give you the respect you demand. If you dress like a prostitute they are going to treat you like one. Don’t get me wrong, you will definitely get attention from guys. However, they will view you as an easy target. There is a way to dress sexy and get attention without come off like a tramp.
No, guy is going to take you seriously if he thinks you’re a wh*re. Would you take a guy seriously if he walked around the club like the situation flashing his abs to every ho that walks by? Probably not.
Personally, I much rather meet a girl with really good style, then a girl who’s half naked. If you’re hot enough and carry yourself with confidence you can get attention from guys and still leave a little up to the imagination.
If all you want is attention from men then keep doing what you’re doing. However, if you’re really out there looking for love in some misguided way. Tone it down.