Now For My Favorite Spots To Meet Single Guys...

The Mayfly: Ran by a group of young guys, the Mayfly is a bit off the beaten path in the LES, in that it isn’t in Dimes Square and it has a bit of an Irish pub feel (although it's a bit more upscale). It attracts a crowd of finance bros enjoying drinks and the DJ after a weekend dinner. Expect a mix of young professionals and tourists looking for a place that’s less scene-y. The spot also hosts brunches, trivia nights, and features comedians every Wednesday. Always expect a warm welcome here and a staff that is very attentive to inclusivity.

Ray's Bar: Counting among its owners stars like Nicholas Braun (Cousin Greg of Succession notoriety) and Justin Theroux, Ray’s is decorated like your hometown's local bar but is unsurprisingly frequented by influencers, A-list actors, and social cool kids who are in the know. The pool table at the entrance is where you’ll find the guys easiest on the eyes: muscles and tattoos abound. Holidays at Ray’s are always a to-do and in the summer months there’s choice outdoor seating and consistent foot traffic. The bartenders are also the friendliest (if you mind your manners) and best looking in town. This bar is perfect because there is an equal mix of queer and cishet people, oftentimes hanging out together at the tables and bar seating.

[Photos via The Mayfly, @raysbarnyc]

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