F*cking Do YOU!
The best approach is to just be yourself, and that alone should piss enough people off. Ironic that the message of a majority of self-help books is what's keeping you from being universally adored, right? If you're totally yourself, you run a very high risk of being disliked. If you water yourself down in order to pacify people you would never want to be friends with, you're not being true to you. Damned if you do, damned if you don't - might as well just do then, right?
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